a good relationship is like wearing a pair of shoes that match well with your foot. A shoes that can make you feel comfortable. confident. bring you to places. shoes that are with you when you jump for excitement, when you sit in the corner of the room for disappointment. but it's not that the shoes always fit. sometimes they can hurt your foot if you wear it for too long.
a good relationship is like all love songs that haven't been made before. It's just that all existing love songs can't stand alone describing what you feel. a good relationship is not always sure where are you now, but you somehow sure that you are on your way to something good because you know your destination.
time flies to what seems like a blink of an eye. to hold a hand that as soft as a marshmallow, and to slowly linger between fingers, and to feel like you are connected in some ways-that when both eyes locked you two just smiled like something funny just happened when it is not. that you can still stand strong when he is not around because you believe in each other. that you work everyday from Monday to Friday wholeheartedly because on Saturday and Sunday you just gonna greet the only one who definitely will wipe your tiredness. and that-even though two days are too short-is the best reason why you work the way you work everyday, the reason why you wake up and feel alive.
this can make you childish and mature in the same way. but you know the limit and the place. you know that some gestures can never be more right for you. you know when you are side by side, everything just seems right, even though the world is wrong. but at least one thing is right for sure. that you are together. fight is normal. a temporary madness is alright. but when you put aside your ego and selfishness, it is because you know what to choose: your ego that can harm you forever or that person?
a good relationship is like a home. no matter how far you travel and go away, you will come to the place you call home.
a good relationship is not about a month of togetherness, a half-year anniversary, a year anniversary, an 8th anniversary. it is when you look at your calendar, you realize that it's been a year today and you don't feel that time works very slow in a year. and it's not about the one year, but it's about when I look back, I see so many things and changes happened. it's about me being so grateful that in this past year some parts of me changed, and him too-in a good way, hopefully. it is still early, but I know that this is the beginning. I know that I am on my way.
Looking forward to more and more happy and not necessarily happy days with you, A.